Ghosts of girlfriends past - Time-Out - some background....

Here's the thing. I'm just an average looking guy. I had a decent trim build in my 20's (just toned, not bulky and ripped....), wavy dark blonde hair, just 5'7" (my brother is 6'5" as was my Gampy and my dad was 6'4" - my mom's Norwegian side were short like me) and a tad larger penis size than average (6" and good girth that I've been told is important) that I could use well and often during the night as needed. I never attracted many girls but when I connected I was a fine. 

I can be humorous and cleaver. Yet I can be very shy until the door opens up but there needs to be a spark. I was never one to pick-up girls in bars at all. I just kind of met a few serendipitously. By the time I was 27, I had had sex with 12 women, and no "one night stands". 

Some of the women I had relationships with (6+ months) were really hot. I have no idea why me. Men are very visual. Ever notice men's magazine have very short articles and a LOT of pictures? Women's magazines have long articles and fewer photos. 

I think women are more focused on charisma, charm, confidence, being true? I have no idea. I tend to be very open about me. I really appreciate how women present themselves as confident, NOT manipulative, not flighty or into games. I just like honest girls next door that are decently attractive, not super model beautiful that most men look for. I don't think Melania Trump is attractive nor Christie Brinkley however Sandra Bullock, Diane Lane and Analeigh Tipton are hot. 

I like to cuddle. Sappy, I know. Nothing much better than a cold winter weekend spooning with a hardon nestled to her backside. And once in a while rolling over for nice long sex. 

Hair color - doesn't matter. Just keep the hairstyle simple and uncomplicated, and please don't color it. Accept who you are. I have been with brunettes, blondes, a red-head, really dark hair, doesn't matter. What's between the ears matters 85% to me. Toothless hillbillies are right out and really over-weight too meaning you don't take care of yourself! Just take care of yourself and dress nice. Not fancy and frilly, just not trashy. Bra or braless, just use good taste if the girls have a mind of their own.

I'm not attracted to women who wear a lot of make-up (minimal or none is better) or have had boob jobs - I don't care how big or small they are, I care about a genuine, honest, down-to-earth personality. "Must Love Dogs" sums it up well too. 

I'm not into casual sex or one-nighters. There has to be a strong emotional connection.

Enjoying beer and a porterhouse is good, as well as enjoying a glass of good Merlot. Hard liquor, hard drinkers no. Smokers (vaping, tobacco, and weed) are a massive ZERO; my dad smoked 3 packs a day and died from lung disease at 68. My wife was a smoker until she developed lung cancer, was cured yet is now addicted to Nicorette gum - yes, I was an idiot knowing she was a smoker but I never that she'd be The One, and before you know it, here I am. 

As mentioned earlier, I'm a "Dennis Port" kind of outdoor person.

So, that is some background on me, what I like and stuff. TMI???